{"id":1912,"date":"2023-01-05T10:04:55","date_gmt":"2023-01-05T10:04:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vaiksed.ee\/?page_id=1912"},"modified":"2023-08-10T12:51:05","modified_gmt":"2023-08-10T12:51:05","slug":"lahedastele","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/vaiksed.ee\/ru\/lahedastele\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0414\u043b\u044f \u0440\u043e\u0434\u043d\u044b\u0445 \u0438 \u0431\u043b\u0438\u0437\u043a\u0438\u0445"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tihtipeale ei oska s\u00f5brad, pereliikmed ja kolleegid kuidagi k\u00e4ituda vanematega, kes on l\u00e4bi elanud lapse kaotuse ja on leinas. Kuidas sellisele perele toeks olla? Mida \u00fctelda ja mida \u00fctlemata j\u00e4tta?<br>Oleme siia kogunud m\u00f5ned soovitused ise lapse kaotust kogenud vanematelt selle kohta, kuidas sellistele peredele k\u00f5ige paremini tuge pakkuda.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/vaiksed.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tsitaat11.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-710\" width=\"477\" height=\"207\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-medium-font-size\" style=\"color:#339999\"><strong><strong><strong>Lapse kaotusest r\u00e4\u00e4kimine<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sageli kardavad s\u00f5brad ja tuttavad lapse kaotust kogenud perega suhelda. Kardetakse h\u00e4irida v\u00f5i midagi valesti teha, ei osata k\u00e4ituda v\u00f5i ei teata, mida leinas olijale \u00fctelda. Samas m\u00f5jub l\u00e4hedaste eemale hoidmine leinajatele tihtipeale hoopis valusalt ja pettumust valmistavalt. Vanemate jaoks olemas olemisega annad neile m\u00e4rku, et sa hoolid neist ja nende lapsest ning et sulle l\u00e4heb juhtunu korda.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tihti ei julge inimesed surnud last mainida, sest ei leia \u00f5igeid s\u00f5nu ja kardavad midagi valesti \u00f6eldes vanematele haiget teha. \u00d5igetest s\u00f5nadest ja vastustest olulisem on m\u00e4rguanne, et sa tunned lapse kaotust kogenud vanematele kaasa ja oled vajadusel nende jaoks olemas. Samuti ei tasu karta, et tuletad surnud last mainides vanematele seda kurba s\u00fcndmust meelde. Vanematel on juhtunu meeles niikuinii, \u00fcksk\u00f5ik, kas nad r\u00e4\u00e4givad sellest, v\u00f5i ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kui vanemad on valmis lapse kaotusest r\u00e4\u00e4kima, kuula osav\u00f5tlikult ja k\u00fcsi, mis ja kuidas juhtus. \u00c4ra karda pisaraid ja leina \u2013 vajadusel lase r\u00e4\u00e4kijal kurb olla ja nutta ja \u00e4ra p\u00fc\u00fca tema reaktsioone pidurdada (v\u00e4lja arvatud juhul, kui need kellelegi ohtlikud on). Kui vanemad on lapsele pannud nime, kasuta seda vestluses.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/vaiksed.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tsitaat7-1.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-725\" width=\"428\" height=\"217\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>\u0411\u0443\u0434\u044c\u0442\u0435 \u043e\u0441\u0442\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0436\u043d\u044b \u0441 \u0442\u0430\u043a\u0438\u043c\u0438 \u0441\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0430\u043c\u0438 \u0443\u0442\u0435\u0448\u0435\u043d\u0438\u044f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>\u00ab\u0412\u0440\u0435\u043c\u044f \u043b\u0435\u0447\u0438\u0442\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u0425\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043e, \u0447\u0442\u043e \u0432\u044b \u043c\u043e\u043b\u043e\u0434\u044b\u0435\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u041f\u043e\u0441\u0442\u0430\u0440\u0430\u0439\u0441\u044f \u043e\u0431 \u044d\u0442\u043e \u043d\u0435 \u0434\u0443\u043c\u0430\u0442\u044c\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u0416\u0438\u0437\u043d\u044c \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0434\u043e\u043b\u0436\u0430\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u0425\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043e, \u0447\u0442\u043e \u0443 \u0442\u0435\u0431\u044f \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c \u0435\u0449\u0435 \u0440\u0435\u0431\u0435\u043d\u043e\u043a\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u0423 \u0432\u0430\u0441 \u0435\u0449\u0435 \u0431\u0443\u0434\u0443\u0442 \u0434\u0435\u0442\u0438\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u041a\u0430\u0436\u0434\u043e\u043c\u0443 \u0434\u0430\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f \u0441\u0442\u043e\u043b\u044c\u043a\u043e, \u0441\u043a\u043e\u043b\u044c\u043a\u043e \u043e\u043d \u043c\u043e\u0436\u0435\u0442 \u0432\u044b\u043d\u0435\u0441\u0442\u0438\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u0411\u0443\u0434\u044c \u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u043d\u043e\u0439, \u0442\u044b \u043d\u0443\u0436\u043d\u0430 \u0441\u0432\u043e\u0435\u043c\u0443 \u043c\u0443\u0436\u0443\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u041a\u0430\u043a \u0442\u044b, \u0432\u0441\u0451 \u0443\u0436\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043b\u043e?\u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041f\u0443\u0441\u0442\u044c \u0440\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u0438 \u0441\u0430\u043c\u0438 \u0432\u044b\u0431\u0438\u0440\u0430\u044e\u0442 \u00ab\u0442\u0435\u043c\u043f\u00bb \u0442\u0440\u0430\u0443\u0440\u0430, \u043d\u0435 \u0437\u0430\u0441\u0442\u0430\u0432\u043b\u044f\u0439\u0442\u0435 \u0438\u0445 \u0434\u0443\u043c\u0430\u0442\u044c \u043e \u043d\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0439 \u0431\u0435\u0440\u0435\u043c\u0435\u043d\u043d\u043e\u0441\u0442\u0438 \u0438 \u0440\u0435\u0431\u0435\u043d\u043a\u0435.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-medium-font-size\" style=\"color:#339999\"><strong>Leinavate vanemate toetamine<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Selle asemel, et \u00f6elda \u201cAndke teada, kui ma saan teie heaks midagi teha\u201d, paku ise v\u00e4lja m\u00f5ni konkreetne tegevus, kuidas sa saad leinas vanemaid toetada \u2013 neile s\u00fc\u00fca viia, suuremaid lapsi hoida, oodatud beebi asjad nende kodust kokku korjata v\u00f5i neid lapse matuste korraldamisel abistada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kas lapse kaotuse puhul sobib saata m\u00e4lestuskaarti v\u00f5i lilli? Mingeid reegleid sellisteks puhkudeks ei ole olemas. Kui sa tunned, et selline \u017eest aitab sul vanematele toeks olla ja tuleb s\u00fcdamest, ei pane nad seda kindlasti pahaks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041d\u0435 \u0437\u0430\u0431\u044b\u0432\u0430\u0439\u0442\u0435 \u0440\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u0435\u0439 \u0438 \u0438\u0445 \u0440\u0435\u0431\u0435\u043d\u043a\u0430 \u0438 \u0442\u043e\u0433\u0434\u0430, \u043a\u043e\u0433\u0434\u0430 \u043f\u043e\u0441\u043b\u0435 \u0441\u043b\u0443\u0447\u0438\u0432\u0448\u0435\u0433\u043e\u0441\u044f \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0439\u0434\u0435\u0442 \u043a\u0430\u043a\u043e\u0435-\u0442\u043e \u0432\u0440\u0435\u043c\u044f. \u0418 \u0434\u043b\u044f \u0441\u0430\u043c\u0438\u0445 \u0440\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u0435\u0439 \u043e\u043a\u0430\u0436\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f \u043f\u0443\u0433\u0430\u044e\u0449\u0435\u0439 \u043d\u0435\u043e\u0436\u0438\u0434\u0430\u043d\u043d\u043e\u0441\u0442\u044c\u044e, \u043d\u0430\u0441\u043a\u043e\u043b\u044c\u043a\u043e \u0442\u044f\u0436\u0435\u043b\u043e\u0439 \u0438 \u0434\u043e\u043b\u0433\u043e\u0439 \u0431\u0443\u0434\u0435\u0442 \u0441\u043a\u043e\u0440\u0431\u044c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><strong>Vaata ka: <a href=\"https:\/\/vaiksed.ee\/ru\/praktilised-kusimused\/\">\u0420\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u044e<\/a><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tihtipeale ei oska s\u00f5brad, pereliikmed ja kolleegid kuidagi k\u00e4ituda vanematega, kes on l\u00e4bi elanud lapse kaotuse ja on leinas. Kuidas sellisele perele toeks olla? Mida \u00fctelda ja mida \u00fctlemata j\u00e4tta?Oleme&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":174446671,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.12 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>L\u00e4hedastele | Vaikuse lapsed<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Lapse kaotus on hirmus nii lapsevanematele kui l\u00e4hedastele. Kuidas olla toeks lapse kaotust kogenud vanematele, mida \u00f6elda ja mitte \u00f6elda leinajale? 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