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Lapse kaotusega seoses on vanematel tarvis leida lahendus k\u00fcsimusele, kuidas suhelda edasi teiste inimestega enda \u00fcmber. Kas ja mida \u00f6elda s\u00f5pradele, tuttavatele, kolleegidele, naabritele ja teistele inimestele? Lapse kaotusest r\u00e4\u00e4kida ei ole kerge. Samuti on valusad hetked, kui keegi k\u00fcsib lapseootuse kohta v\u00f5i uurib, kas v\u00f5ib neid \u00f5nnitleda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kui teised ei tea pere kaotusest, v\u00f5ib kergesti tekkida olukord, mis ohustab vaevaga saavutatud emotsionaalset tasakaalu, kuni selleni, et hirm teiste inimeste k\u00fcsimuste ees v\u00f5ib panna pere isolatsiooni. Sellep\u00e4rast on vanematele lihtsam, kui v\u00f5imalikult paljud inimesed nende \u00fcmber on lapse kaotusest teadlikud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another difficult situation for the parents is when one of the expected twins dies. They have to find a way to rejoice and mourn at the same time. What complicates the matters is that some of the people in their lives know they are expecting two children \u2013 the parents receive congratulations but no support in their grief. That is why it is important to share the sad news alongside the good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sharing this with others could be as simple as saying that the other child died before or shortly after birth. If you feel able to, you can give the details and answer questions. However, if you do not want to answer any questions, you can just say that you don\u2019t want to or can't talk any more about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the parents themselves do not have the strength to spread the message, they can ask a family member or friend to do it. In addition to delivering the sad news, they may also be asked to let others know how the parents would like to be treated. It is usually difficult to tolerate pity \u2013 asking to avoid it can be one of the requests. They can also say whether the parents want to talk about their experience or whether it is better that others do not ask questions about the details without the parents\u2019 introduction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sageli kardavad s\u00f5brad ja tuttavad lapse kaotust kogenud perega suhelda. Kardetakse h\u00e4irida v\u00f5i midagi valesti teha, ei osata k\u00e4ituda v\u00f5i ei teata, mida \u00f6elda. Enamasti on s\u00f5prade eemale hoidmine valus ja pettumust valmistav. Seep\u00e4rast v\u00f5ib anda neile teada, et kontakti v\u00f5tmine ja kokkusaamise kutsed on vaatamata leinale endiselt oodatud. M\u00f5ne aja m\u00f6\u00f6dudes v\u00f5ib tekkida soov tunda end elus osalemas ning selle juures on teistelt tulnud ettepanekud abiks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next pregnancy<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meditsiinilises m\u00f5ttes pole v\u00e4ga t\u00e4pset selgust, kui pikalt ja ka kas \u00fcldse peab uuest rasedusest p\u00e4rast raseduse katkemist v\u00f5i surnults\u00fcndi hoiduma. Erandiks on ehk keisril\u00f5ige, mille puhul v\u00f5iks v\u00e4hemalt kolm kuud v\u00f5i veelgi parem pool aastat aega anda haavade paranemiseks ja \u00f5mblusmaterjali lahustumiseks. Kui on olnud raseduse katkemine v\u00f5i raseduse katkestamine meditsiinilistel n\u00e4idustustel v\u00f5i vaginaalne s\u00fcnnitus, v\u00f5iks enne uut rasedust olla v\u00e4hemalt \u00fcks (parem veel kui kaks) normaalset menstruatsiooni \u2013 see on m\u00e4rk, et emakas ja munasarjade t\u00f6\u00f6 on korras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Planning for your next pregnancy primarily depends on how ready you are emotionally. Some people want another child as soon as possible to cope with the loss. In any case, whatever your circumstances, you have to ask yourself whether you are ready for the very small chance that the pregnancy will also not lead to the birth of a healthy child. There are many emotions that need to settle and be worked through \u2013 guilt, emptiness, grief, the feeling that you are \u201cbetraying\u201d the child who died by planning a new baby \u2013 and different people have very different feelings about the next pregnancy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For some diseases (such as diabetes, thyroid diseases, kidney diseases, heart diseases, high blood pressure, and autoimmune diseases), maternal health and the potential cost of the disease and medications used must be considered and the new pregnancy should be planned accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enne j\u00e4rgmise raseduse planeerimist on tihtipeale n\u00e4idustatud uuringud v\u00f5imaliku raseduse katkemise v\u00f5i surnults\u00fcnni p\u00f5hjuse leidmiseks \u2013 siis tuleks uue rasestumisega oodata seni, kuni uuringute vastused olemas. N\u00e4iteks loote kaasas\u00fcndinud v\u00e4\u00e4rarendite korral aitab geneetik hinnata nende kordumise riski ja uurib vajadusel nii ema kui isa.<\/p>\n\n\n

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However, it should be borne in mind that in about 30% of stillbirths, the exact cause of death of the child remains unidentified. Also, it is often not just a single disease or condition, but a number of different causes being intertwined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Igal juhul on surnults\u00fcnni korral n\u00e4idustatud j\u00e4rgmise raseduse p\u00f5hjalikum ja sagedasem j\u00e4lgimine, eelistatult arsti juures. K\u00f5ige olulisem on esimesel visiidil koos arstiga anal\u00fc\u00fcsida p\u00f5hjalikult eelmise raseduse kulgu ja teha konkreetne plaan, mida ja kui sageli uurida ning milliste tulemuste korral uuringud veelgi sagedamini n\u00e4idustatud on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


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Lapse kaotusega seoses on vanematel tarvis leida lahendus k\u00fcsimusele, kuidas suhelda edasi teiste inimestega enda \u00fcmber. Kas ja mida \u00f6elda s\u00f5pradele, tuttavatele, kolleegidele, naabritele ja teistele inimestele? Lapse kaotusest r\u00e4\u00e4kida…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":174446673,"featured_media":0,"parent":104,"menu_order":4,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"yoast_head":"\nTagasi igap\u00e4evaellu p\u00e4rast lapse kaotust | Vaikuse lapsed<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Kuidas naasta tagasi igap\u00e4evaellu p\u00e4rast lapse kaotust, tegeleda leinaga ja mida tuleks teada j\u00e4rgmisest rasedusest? 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